From very early on in our relationship, we have been very committed to each other.  On our 1st anniversary, Josh got us a pair of simple gold bands for us to wear.  Seeing us with these rings, I think many people assumed over the years that we were already married.  We never saw the need to have a wedding ceremony because we were already very committed to each other, and the only additional benefit we sought was legal recognition.

When marriage equality finally came nationwide in 2015, we did not immediately marry because we did not want to rush, and because we wanted the date to have personal significance.  With a new administration in place we have felt the need to gain better legal protection for our family.  Our 20th anniversary, March 31st, felt like the perfect date for our wedding.

The wedding turned out beautifully and as planned.  Josh and I wanted to blend elements from our Jewish and Chinese heritage into the ceremony and reception.  We also wanted to have our 4 kids play an active role.  More than 180 of our friends and family gathered on that night.

Photos from that night have been trickling back in the weeks since, and I will update this post if more come in.